(part of openDemocracy's '16 days against gender violence' blog series)
by Cynthia Cockburn
Of all the many women around the world organising this week for “16 days”, some will be focusing on violence in everyday life, while others will be focusing on violence in war. They are two sides of a single coin. In Guatemala for instance (as Yolanda Aguilar described for oD Today) women are still struggling to emerge from the trauma of three decades of appalling sexual violence in a genocidal war. At the same time, they’re being driven off the ‘peacetime’ streets by an epidemic of femicide.
My research over the last three years has taken me to countries like Colombia, Sierra Leone, Israel/Palestine and Serbia to learn from women who have experienced war at first hand and are speaking out boldly against the militarists.
What I’ve found is that there are two widely touted understandings of war that simply don’t connect up. Women war survivors, for their part, say what stares them in the face: men, masculinity and misogyny have something to do with every war, from bush raids to nuclear rivalry.