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Today, I learned a most wonderful lesson, and I have pupri to thank for this. Even though there are many cultural differences, language barriers, and the help of media with personal agendas (propaganda) With perserverance and attempts to understand another, without using insults, a bridge can be achieved. It does take willingness of both, and resist the urge to be indignant because one may feel slighted by another. It can be done. If just two women from vastly different cultures can try and build a bridge to fill a gap and open communication. Maybe, just maybe, understanding how someone else feels (or walk amile in their shoes) can start to bridge these gaps between countries. Ok, huge leap I know, but it is food for thought. Thanks pupri, it meant alot to me. Now i can have tears of joy, instead of crying about how badly I mangled our conversations. I look forward to learning from you. Truly yours, Joeanna


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Thank you! This is very nice of you! i also look forward to learning from you! This time with more peaceful debating!



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I look forward to it pupri, I have alot of research to do, on several topics now. Matt has given my several great links, brolly has been a help and I need to go back into a bit of history to see how the different gov. played out in the ir foreign policy. I will be a very busy bee. Truly, Joeanna



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Joeanna Nee, If you would like a website which gives as impartial look at Iraq as possible, try clicking to Iraq Daily-Iraq News. It contains the good, the bad and the in between about what's going on in Iraq. It talks about the politics and the fighting. It also talks about the progress being made by the Iraqis themselves-- something which is not reported, or discussed, enough. For some hair raising views of the Mideast, click to MEMRITV. It is arab television with english translations. The rhetoric from some clerics and politicians on arab TV is disturbing.



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ttrryosborn, I will look at those links, which I have done at college with the aide of a teacher, and know they really hate us. My last image I have in my mind was the beheading of Nick Berg on the internet posted by his captors. There are several issues to ponder here. First, why do they hate us so much that they are willing to fly jet liners into buildings filled with people who were from many countries not just ours. I dont think they woke up one morning and said "hey, Im pretty bored. Let's have some fun and hate Americans and plot terroristic ways to kill them all." Shouldn't we at least examine what caused this build up of animosity? I am no dupe, I dont always believe everything our government tells us they are doing. I dont think that the way they are going about their expressions of their hate for us is productive and resulted in us bombing the crap out of their country. We really should have never gone into Iraq, no matter what they think of us. Its their country. The UN made a huge fuss about the inspectors being forbidden to do their jobs, even though it was agreed upon by Sadaam, but what right did that give us to go over there. If the UN had a problem with it, they should have handled it. Since when did we become the UN's police force. Lets get real, how many countries DONT have WMD including us? Let's just get our people home and let them build up their own system of government, after our civil war thats what we had to do. Sure, things are messy, but it will pull there people together, eventually and hopefully. This thread I started was to show bridge building. At one point do we allow the hate to consume us, when do we start the healing, forgiving. When do we start seeing cultural differences, on both sides, and try tolearn to respect it. To perpetuate hate is to perpetuate our demise. No one wants other people's beliefs rammed down each others throats. Change is done by example, and lately we really arent showing a very good example. I love my country and the freedoms I have, but my family emmigrated here, because my great grand parents liked the idea of the American freedoms. It was there choice. Let us not be a bunch of chickens while the fox guards the hen house. Let us use these advanced technologies to break our dependency on fossil fuels, which is a resource that does not replenish itself, and pollutes the air. If we can implement other resources that are self regenerating, we will have less to fight about. So, how bout trying to build some bridges, stop the bloodshed maybe. Let them run their countries as they see fit, according to their cultures. If kids in a camp up here in Maine that brings kids from palestine and the jewish settlers together for just that purpose, and quite successfully at that, as intelligent adults we should be able to at least start. My mom always said "if it was your business you'ld know about it" Is it my business if another country believes that women are second class-no-does it bother me being a woman- oh you betcha. But it is not my place to say their wrong. It is up to their own citizens to do something about it. A direct threat of an attack -provided the fbi and cia can get their heads out of their own asses- sure I expect to kick their ass. As any other country would to protect their own. If we could just start building bridges, we could probably avoid another build up in rage and its emminent destructive consequences. All it is going to take is just one Nuke fired from one country and then its all going to be over for all of us GLOBALLY. So, please ttrryosborn what would you prefer to do? proliferate or swallow some pride and move forward? Truly, Joeanna



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Joeanna Nee, When you look at the websites that I have suggested remember that fanatics in the Mideast only number in the thousands. The media exaggerates their power. The overwhelming number of governments and their people are friendly toward us. They include Egypt, Lebanon, Saudi Arabia, Kuwait, Yemen, UAE, Oman, Dhubai, Pakistan, Afghanistan, Morocco, Indonesia, Malaysia, Turkey and others. Each has its own miniscule anti-american factions However, each country also has a criminal population which vastly outnumbers the fanatics. If you look at Iraq, the number of rebels is very small in relation to the population-- between 10-,000 to 20,000. Before his fall, Saddam emptied his own jails of criminals on the local population. Their number is estimated to be 50,000. Many captured rebels so far have been these criminals who work for the various resistance groups for money, and money only. They earn $200 for each person they "slaughter". They generally kidnap unarmed Iraqis off the street to kill them for these bounties. In the corporate world of Iraqi "resistance", if a rebel kills ten people, he can become an "emir" with his own gang of thugs and earn a SALARY of $1500 per month. Some of these murderers are paid by Saddam leftovers who control the money Saddam hid under the Oil for Food Program as well as other scams. Others are paid by Syrian Intelligence which wants to keep uprest in Iraq going for as long as possible.That's not exactly the kind of "resistance" that US haters want you to know about. The Iraqi population is also getting tired of these thugs. Reports of individuals informing government and coalition forces of rebels hideouts is increasing. Prior to last November's attack on Falloujah, many incidents of locals killing rebels for bringing misery on the city were recorded. Last week three terrorists were caught by local residents of Baghdad and hanged in the street. As the number of terrorists in Iraq remains small, the number of Iraqis rebuilding their country increases dramatically. One quick example is the Iraqi-American Chamber of Commerce; started by two Iraqi-American after Saddams fall. 5,000 small and medium-size Iraqi businesses belong as well as 300 American businesses. They cut through red tape to do projects from local water purification projects to a ten-hotel construction job. The Los Angeles Times (not a Bush supporter) has reported on this group. It's members have a positive attitude about Iraqi's people and the US. One of them said that the Americans are needed in Iraq for stability. According to him "don't let anybody kid you. We need the Americans and everybody in Iraq knows it."



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Joeanna Nee, I forgot to mention a few more bridge building exercises by the Iraqis. There are today 75 newspapers and 180 radio stations in Iraq. This is a kernel which sticks in the throat of those who hope for a failure in Iraq. Additionally, the US has just finished installing a new $175 million generator in Baghdad for the benefit of the population. The Iraqi government itself has asked the UN to extend the mandate for coalition presence to maintain security until Iraqi forces are ready and in news reports today, The new government has included many sunnis in the committee to write the constitution. In the same article, many in the Iraqi government have asked the US to contribute advice on how to write it. Bridge building is picking up steam in Iraq.



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Joeanne Nee, The hatred of America by the 9/11 hi-jackers can be traced to the US interference in the Middle East and the support it gives to Israel and the undemocratic regimes of Saudi Arabi, Kuwait and Egypt amongst others. The US supported the destabilization and overthrow of the democratically elected Iranian President Dr Mossadeq in the early 1950's, as has been stated on this thread many times, as you are aware. The US supported Saddam Hussein's murderous war with Iran, because of its policy of not allowing any nation to threaten the oil supply and Iran was reckoned to be moving in the direction of becoming the Gulf principal power. Hundreds of thousands of Iranian and Iraqi youth were killed and wounded in this long war of attrition, wich the US did nothing to stop. In fact the contrary was the case.Donald Rumsfled's Pentagon and CIA supplied intelligence to Saddam with regard to Iranian militry positions so that the Iraqi army could better direct their chemical weapons. Israel possesses nuclear weapons that the US never speaks about, yet warns Iran not to join the nuclear club. Such bias and hypocrisy is obvious to the entire Muslim population of the world, let alone the Middle East. In the face of all that I have mentioned, is it a surprise that the US is hated by so many Muslims but what is even more suprprising is that the revenge they seek for what they feel is unabated aggression against them, has not gone much further in terms of terrorist activity outside of Iraq. Now I know that the US and Europe and now China depend on Middle East oil and that no one has clean hands in this situation, however, the Muslims and their activists tend to look at the main despoiler, which is the US. The tragedy, as you have pointed out, is that the entire world's economy is absolutley dependent on oil and there is so much financial interest by big oil Corporations that support the Republican neocon Bush administration, that the alternative energy you speak of as the way of release from this quagmire, is looking a very long way off. The most likely future outcome is more wars leading eventually to the big bang you mentioned in your last post. We are all caught up in a world where there are so many cross currents of interests and conflicts, that a move in one direction causes a problem in another, or to put it in proverbail terms, one man's meat is another man's poison. It has always been so and it will continue to be so. Message was edited by: brolly3 Message was edited by: brolly3 Message was edited by: brolly3



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Just one other example of 'Bridge Building' that Ttrryosborn either doesn't know about or doesn't want to metion because it reveals the true and underlying US intentions with regard to Iraq's oil wealth. The Iraqi oil refinery workers in Basra have gone on strike in the past few months when US or other foreign contract workers have been offered their jobs and are threatening to strike if their industry is privatised and bought up by US oil giants. They rightly believe that if Iraq gets a fair price for its oil, there would be no problem of finding the money to invest in the modernising their refinery. The pretext used by the US in getting its hands on ownership of the Iraqi oil industry is that it is the only way to get enough money invested to upgrade the old refinery equipment, as this would be done by the US oil Corporations. Given the enormous earning potential of Iraq's oil industry, this is just plain nonsense. The US wants to control Iraqi oil and to get it on the cheap. By getting its own oil giants into majority or total ownership, they can achieve that object. The question that arises is what right has the US to take Iraqi assets either dreictly or indirectly. Ttrryosborn mentions a water purification plant paid for by the US amounting to 175 million Dollars, as if this is outright generosity. It is nothing of the sort. It is meant to be noticed as a purely benevolent gesture.The truth is that with the second largest oil reserves in the world, control of Iraqi oil is an enormous prize and 175 million Dollars is literally peanuts in comparison to the multi Billions ( infact Trillions) of dollars that the US hopes to gain via its oil corporations from Iraqi oil in the future.The US will no doubt pay some moeny to Iraq for the oil but nowhere near what it would bring on a truly open market,the difference being the profits the US oil giants will keep for themselves. Another strategy the US has to keep oil prices low, is to use the Iraqi puppet government when it is more securely installed in office, to act on OPEC to force prices down and to put the OPEC leader, Saudi Arabia in its place if it wants to hike up the price. The Ttrryosborn's of this world are 'economical' with the truth and only report what looks good to the ignorant, who are not able or prepared to look more closely at what is really happening and intended. Message was edited by: brolly3 Message was edited by: brolly3



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OH MY! Where to start? ok Brollly, I am well aware of alot of the wheelin and dealin that has been done over the decades. I also would say that our government wasnt the only ones who had their hands stuck in some of those black ops. My post was a sarcastic(not in a mean sense)reply to say wake up. There were alot of countries throughout 80's that also asked for our help, which we did. Am I saying that we are Polly Purebreads, no-that would take a frontal labotomy for that thought, but do I believe we are this huge evil group- ABSOLUTELY NOT. England had a way of enforcing it's system of government on alot of countries "The Brithish Empire". Should those countries hate all english? no. Are we a bigger target, oh yeah. Alot of it, has been this on going mix with the israelis and the palestinian, who fight over whos chunk of dirt it is. OH, and yes I know it is Holy to them.(no disrespect intended) At some point, and in most religiona one is taught that to be forgiven one must be able to forgive. Unfortunately, sometimes I think that there are to many layers and subsects of interconnected back door deals with all the countries. Done before my moms conception, that to try to accurately say who has done what and why would be an act of utter futility. We have never really had journalistic "integrity"- I believe that there are some journalist who believe in the truth, but again there is another web of policies and well... the hoops you have to jump through. Sorry, Brolly Im having a hard time saying just simply- That we shouldnt be so suprised, but yet we were. We have become these mindless sheep so focused on how we are going to get that better job, or is my company going to move out of the country, that we werent watching the people we elected to look out for our best interests and not their banks interests. There alot of people on a one to one basis might be happy, but like any oppressed person whos been tortured you would hug a cactus if they were the ones walkin into your country with tanks, guns and hi tech weapons. If they are that fanatical, then they truly will not think twice about blowing a dirty nuke, and feel that it is the right thing to do. So, in my one small way wanted just to show people, that if pupri and I found a way to make a bridge-(look at some of the other topics to see what this is about) souldnt we all start to try to understand other cultures and teach them that we are all not like people who made these deals back then. That we as individuals should try to bridge these gaps. Oh Geez, I could go on and on about things, but my whole point was that it can be done if we stop for a minute and realize that we as a people need to be more responsible about the bridges built between our peoples and not mindlessly expect our government is doing it. I dont relish the thought of learning how to say BBBBAAAAAAHHH, will grazing in the field. TTrryosborn, I am sure that there are alot of Iraqis that might be happy that we are fixin the mess thats been made in there country. Sure they might be happy that Saddam wont be killing them just for the kick of it. But we had no reason to go into their country in the first place. We are the ones that got caught with our pants down in our own complacancy, while our fbi and cia were asleep at the wheel because they dont play together well. We retaliated to Afghanistan appropriately. At that point we should have started working on what went wrong here and fixed that, now just said "hell the jets and bombers are all fired up, why not take 'em for a spin around the block" WE as a people need to look at what we need to do to shore up our defences and start repairing some fences that need mending. The old addage "good fences make good neighbors" That was my point. If just two women from two different cultures and possibley two different beliefs(i didnt directly ask her about her religion) can try to smooth rough waters between us so that we can learn from one another, that empowers us by knowledge. I refuse to be a sheep, besides wool makes me itchy. Hopefully I clarified what my point was and if I didnt, Ill make sure I have the bandaids ready for my ass-shredding. Joeanna


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