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Isolated in a toxic relationship

I am in lockdown with my husband who drinks and shouts and breaks things. We live on social grants. My kids are trying to do homework on my phone. #HumansofCOVID19

Isolated in a toxic relationship
Lockdown is lonely for women trapped in unhappy marriages | Pixnio.com
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I have been married for 21 years, unfortunately. I was 18 years old. He was our neighbor. He invited me to his friend’s home and didn’t let me go. From that day on we are considered married, which I regret.

I have three kids. The oldest is my daughter, who is 19 years old, the youngest is my 8-year-old son. My 13-year-old middle son is disabled, and he attends a school for children with hearing impairments.

"My husband’s only participation in our daily life is his aggressive behaviour, shouting and breaking things."

I am the only one taking care of our kids: helping them to do classes, cooking and cleaning for them. Simultaneously, I am under constant pressure from my husband especially in these lockdown days when there is nowhere to go and staying home is torment with his presence. He drinks and shouts and breaks things around him.