The abuse also affected their ability to do their job: “I was getting to the point where, when the phone would ring, my heart was racing, my hands would go clammy because I didn't know if I was going to get a genuine call or just someone mouthing off,” they said.
“We [normally] put so much passion and experience into our jobs. Because we couldn’t trust people, we were self-censoring, giving very much the bare bones stuff, which meant that we weren’t doing as good a job as we could be – because we were just so scared that something would be taken out of context or used against us.”
When returning to work, head of helpline services Krystyna Hebb said, she “went to sign on my laptop and I started shaking”.
Chief executive Susie Green told openDemocracy that helpline workers “do not deserve to have this kind of abuse”, adding: “It shouldn’t feel dangerous to work for a charity.”
Mermaids closed its helpline services temporarily, reduced hours, and removed their volunteers from the service in the wake of the abuse.
‘Campaign of misinformation and hate’
What Green called a “campaign of misinformation and hate against us” began after an article in the Telegraph conflated chest ironing – a practice that is classed as female genital mutilation – with chest binding, which queer and trans people have been doing for decades to alleviate gender dysphoria. The article suggested that Mermaids’ provision of chest binders to children, allegedly behind parents’ backs, could be considered child abuse.
The Met Police released a statement clarifying that wearing and supplying chest binders is not a criminal offence – but, Susie said, by this point “the damage had already been done”.
In Green’s view, this was a “coordinated attack” to discredit Mermaids and included complaints to the Charity Commission, the government body that regulates charities in England and Wales, and to local councils and councillors who they demanded to take Mermaids off their resource lists.
The campaign has led to pauses in funding from Mermaids’ trusts and foundations while the charity commission completes the regulatory case it opened, and the Department for Education has removed Mermaids from its school well-being resources. Tory MP Miriam Cates went as far as calling for a police inquiry into Mermaids, while former prime minister Liz Truss said the allegations should be “properly looked at”.
Green said: “They’re basically trying to come at us from all sides and damage our reputation and our standing and create a furore where there isn’t one.”
The helpline service staff expressed fears that children who would previously have called in the evenings after school, when helplines are now closed, may be struggling with their mental health.
Mermaids has launched a crowdfunder with a target of raising £25,000 to help keep its helpline open in the face of the threats, and continue to provide support for trans young people and their families.
“They keep trying to get rid of us,” said Green. “We’re not going anywhere.”
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